zhaozhilong SG I don't know about Singapore, but back in Malaysia I have had very good impression of Malay girls. They are very gentle and friendly. My parents have no objections with their son dating Malay girls. Heck my father once even encouraged me to get a Malay gf. But the religion thing is a serious issue......so I never dated one eventhough I had feelings (I am pretty sure those were mutual feelings) for quite a few at different times.
cowpeh SG Whoever did really marry, I must trully respect you and hope that you really knows and prepared to take all consequences such as stares, your child background queries, your parents having to explain to relatives etc.
MRMUSICPRODUCER SG if u r a guy & 1 2 marry a malay gal, u & your future kids will have 2 forsaken your surname. i think tats the main reason why your folks r against it. 2 me, as long as u r happy then no probs.
nikitadc5 SG yah...true....it's abt the surname thingy problem....sigh...like u said, if u r happy..NO PROBLEMO...
nikitadc5 SG yo...!!! Aishwarya ....I know it's YOU ~~~~....HAHAHA....So, don be a pain in the ass n f%^& out of here if u have nothing to say...as one of the members here says, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAY OUT OF EQUITY, DON BE SO KAY POH !!! HOR !!! Singaporeans don like to be biased like you...I AM A PEANUT BCOS I'M A GIRL !!! U WANNA SEE ???? !!!
nikitadc5 SG I seriously don like to confront ppl, but sometimes, u ppl r being too much...it's just a normal chit chat to share point of views...why do u have to attack me bcos i'm a peanut, trying to bold my agenda wordings ???
k4korny SG actually, if i were going into a serious r/s with a malay girl, then.. maybe.. i will consider all those probs abt parents, religion and stuff. For me, i'll probably not care less.. it sounds quite fun leh.. it's a good chance to see how my folks will freak out if they see me with a malay girl. haha.. and it'll pave the way for the next gf. she'll get a better life cos my parents will probably be thinking "No matter how bad she is, at least she's not malay/ Indian!" Joking nia.. Like u said lah.. some ppl in sg are still pretty backward in their thinking, and u can't control this. Even if you get a same race bf, you can't guarantee that he is the ONe. So when dating, it shouldn't be abt race or religion, just make sure u like him and he likes u. simple rite?
nikitadc5 SG are you up to no good ??? bad bad boy.....naughty naughty ideas...where can like that one.....wa liew....so bad..... lol !!!! You better not do that !!!
leanmean22 SG well.. im malay.. and frankly i would prefer to not date a chinese gal.. from a malay guy`s point of view, its actually kinda hard.. not only do u have to ask the gal to convert.. but its the responsibility after that.. to teach her, help her adapt, and be a role model for her to follow.. it sounds daunting.. but then again.. love conquers all..
nikitadc5 SG of course you won't be alone to go thru this....frens & family, malay organizations to guide you and to teach yr chinese gf and etc....etc....so I hope all those inter racial couples out there to not give up hope.....
